hi all!
good news. went to see my dr. today for first time after surgery. some info:
he said i was healing really nicely and to just be patient with the swelling. that it's a matter of time before it comes down and the muscles get used to 'moving' and having 'tone' again, hence why it's hard to move and smile properly.
he also said he has NEVER seen anyone 'need' a liplift, that lips are very rarely, if ever, 'too' long. it's usually a structural (bone) problem, hence why orthognathic surgery is needed to correct lack of teeth showing, as it is for many of us. he also mentioned that he did stitch my nose together before operating, which i am happy about as i didn't want it moving the 'wrong' way, but, as a positive side effect, it is now a bit 'thinner' at rest and at smiling, and as i mentioned, i had always disliked my nose :P
my biggest piece of advice to ANYone considering this surgery is this: do your homework until you find a MASTER surgeon, even if you have to pay a bit more, for me it was well worth it anyway!